You’re going to get it wrong.


If you’ve known me before my change or even if something about me formed the wrong first impression. You’re going to get it wrong. You’ll refer to me as ‘he’ or use one of my boy’s names.

I won’t lie, I’ll flinch when it happens. especially if I think you know better.

But it will happen, the best thing you can do is fix it and carry on. profuse apologies sidetrack the conversation and rub salt in the wound. Just get it right the next time and don’t sweat the small stuff.




since August I’ve had no libido, significantly less interest in computer games and other pleasures, and a strong interest in sleeping all day. Something has been wrong for a long while and it’s affected my ability to contribute creatively here. sorry if that means you’ve not had much to read but I haven’t had much to say nor been arsed to write what little i might have.